As such, Face v. Face is practically a case study in its own right, serving as an important reminder not only for people going through a separation but also for legal professionals practicing family law, which is why we will dissect it in this article.

Background

The Face v. Face case emerged from a post-separation dispute, primarily over marital property, including business interests and trust assets. The trial court also decided on alimony, which was also called into question upon appeal.

The North Carolina Court of Appeals affirmed the trial court’s decision in part, reversed it in part, and remanded it in part. As such, this case illustrates the complexities of family disputes and the challenges courts face when evaluating property and equitable distribution in divorce cases.

Marital Property and Business Interests

The central issue in Face v. Face concerned the equitable distribution of marital property, including a minority ownership interest in an L.L.C.

Under North Carolina law, specifically N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-20(a) (2021), the court must classify property as either marital, separate, or divisible before determining any equitable division. In Face v. Face, the court saw that the business ownership was marital property. However, the defendant argued that the court erred in calculating and distributing the marital share of the business ownership.

In the second instance the court upheld the classification, viewing the business ownership as marital property, but it identified a clerical error in the mathematical calculations of the marital portion. The case was remanded in this part solely to recalculate the computational mistake, and is upheld in the substantive part.

This is an important legal concept as it shows that simple clerical errors may be corrected without overturning an otherwise proper equitable distribution analysis made by the trial court.

Subject Matter Jurisdiction and Rule 60(b) Motion in Trust Property Disputes

One of the main dispute points revolved around property placed in a revocable trust. The defendant claimed that the trial court lacked subject-matter jurisdiction to distribute trust assets, arguing that the trust itself had not been formally joined as a party to the proceedings.

The appellate court rejected this position, clarifying that when a spouse retains control over a revocable trust, those assets can still be considered as a part of the marital estate. As such, the trial court has correctly retained authority to classify and distribute the trust property, as it was revocable and controlled by one of the parties.

This opinion highlights the principle that marital assets cannot be shielded from equitable distribution by placing them in a revocable trust.

Alimony Determination and Appellate Review Standards in North Carolina

The last key point challenged by the defendant was the alimony amount.

In N.C., alimony determinations require findings on dependency, the supporting spouse’s status, income, expenses, and the marital standard of living. The trial court made its alimony decision primarily on the financial disparity between the parties.

The appellate court affirmed the decision, finding that the standards of review were well established. The second instance court upheld the decision, as the trial court made sufficient findings supported by appropriate evidence. There was no abuse of discretion, and the alimony duration was appropriate.

This part of the decision shows that the appellate court will stand by the trial court’s decisions when they are legally sound and supported by quality evidence and factual findings.

Bottom line

Overall, Face v. Face serves as a meaningful precedent in North Carolina family law. This decision alone highlights the nuances of precise asset valuation in equitable distribution, shows that parties cannot hide assets in revocable trusts, and underscores the importance of factual evidence in alimony decisions.

But the complexity of Face v. Face also demonstrates the importance of working with family law experts who understand the intricacies and delicate nature of family law and separation proceedings.

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The North Carolina case of Efstathiadis v. Efstathiadis shows that parental behavior can be the deciding factor in whether or not a parent gets custody.

Background of the Efstathiadis v. Efstathiadis Case

After getting married in 2009, Efstathios Efstathiadis and Aphrodite Efstathiadis had two children together. They broke up in January 2021 and agreed on a temporary custody arrangement while they awaited a full court hearing.

Soon after the divorce, Aphrodite, the mother, was granted an ex parte Domestic Violence Protective Order (DVPO), which ended up playing a part in determining the father’s fitness to have custody of the children.

At the custody hearing on November 7, 2022, the court heard testimony and evidence about the father’s behavior during and after their marriage (the mother and children had experienced verbal and physical abuse).

Because the mother was thought to be in a better position to provide a stable and secure environment, the court determined that granting the mother primary custody was in the children’s best interests.

The father didn’t like the outcome, so he appealed the court’s ruling.

Efstathios Efstathiadis’ Arguments on Appeal

Efstathios challenged the foundation of the trial court’s ruling during the appeal, arguing that the findings regarding abuse and parental fitness were not supported by enough evidence and should not have justified awarding primary custody of his kids to their mother.

He also claimed the court applied the wrong legal standard. According to him, the custody order effectively modified the earlier custody terms in the Separation Agreement, which would require proof of a substantial change in circumstances under North Carolina law.

How the Court of Appeals Ruled

The trial court’s ruling was fully upheld by the North Carolina Court of Appeals.

And despite contradicting testimony, the appellate court determined that the trial court’s conclusions were backed by reliable evidence. It underlined that appellate courts do not reweigh the evidence on review; rather, trial judges decide the credibility of witnesses and consider the evidence.

The claim that the order should have been regarded as a modification requiring evidence of a significant change in circumstances was also rejected. The appellate court couldn’t examine the claim since the divorce decree incorporating the previous custody agreement was not in the record.

The appellate panel also agreed with the trial court’s decisions about both the parents’ fitness and the children’s best interests.

In North Carolina, decisions about custody are looked at using the “abuse of discretion” standard. An appellate court will only change a decision if it is clear that it is not based on reason or evidence. This standard makes it so that in this case the Court of Appeals found that there was no abuse of discretion and let the custody order stand – meaning the mother should continue having full custody of the kids.

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As you are about to see, the case had two significant points the court clarified for future cases: jurisdiction under the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) and the clarification and application of the “best interests of the child” principle, particularly in cases when a non-parent seeks custody.

Harney v. Harney – Case Background and Summary

The appeal came from a Vance County trial court, which granted minor child custody to the maternal grandfather. The child’s mother challenged the decision, claiming that the court lacked jurisdiction and also made an error by awarding custody to a non-parent.

Ultimately, the Court of Appeals affirmed the lower court’s decision, reinforcing the principles governing interstate custody and parental rights.

UCCJEA Jurisdiction in North Carolina Child Custody Cases

The first question in Harney v. Harney was whether North Carolina properly exercised subject-matter jurisdiction under the UCCJEA.

The UCCJEA, among other things, governs interstate child custody disputes to ensure that only one state exercises jurisdiction in a given case. Doing so ensures legal certainty, which is especially important in disputes involving children, and is why the principle of the “child’s home state” is usually applied when establishing court jurisdiction.

Evidence showed that the child had resided in North Carolina since birth, so no other state was better positioned to qualify as the child’s home state. Therefore, the appellate court affirmed the trial court’s conclusion that North Carolina had jurisdiction under the UCCJEA.

This shows the importance of the procedural part of each interstate case. The court must first confirm its subject-matter jurisdiction before addressing the merits of a custody claim. In Harney v. Harney, the appellate court confirmed that the statutory requirements were satisfied, allowing the custody order to stand.

Trial Court Findings and the Best Interests of the Child Standard

The second issue, besides jurisdiction, concerned the custody itself and whether the child’s grandfather, as a non-parent, could have custody. The North Carolina law protects parents, giving them a priority right to custody of their children. However, that right may yield in particular cases, such as if a parent acts inconsistently with their protected status.

In Harney v. Harney, the trial court had enough evidence on the child’s care and living arrangements, showing that the grandfather was indeed the child’s primary caregiver. Furthermore, the grandfather provided daily stability and support, while the mother’s conduct showed limited engagement and weak decision-making responsibility.

Based on the findings, the trial court found that the mother acted inconsistently with her constitutionally protected parental rights and applied the “best interests of the child” principle, awarding custody to the grandfather.

The Court of Appeals confirmed the trial court’s custody order. The appellate court reiterated that the custody decision was based on factual findings and supported by competent evidence showing that the grandfather was indeed the primary caregiver. It also showed that the mother’s (in)actions led her to lose her constitutionally protected parental rights, as they were against the child’s best interest.

Bottom line in Harney v. Harney

Harney v. Harney reinforces two important principles in North Carolina custody law. First, the importance of strict adherence to the UCCJEA jurisdictional requirements, as well as the importance of the “child’s best interests” standard.

This case shows that parents aren’t guaranteed to win custody disputes against non-parents, as the child’s best interests are determined in each case based on the parties’ prior history and relationship with the child, as well as the child’s living conditions.

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A parent’s repeated disregard for court orders and intentional attempt to sabotage a child’s relationship with the other parent ultimately backfired in this North Carolina Court of Appeals case, leading to a significant custody modification that completely changed the arrangement.

Background of Hasz v. Brittain

In November 2019, the trial court gave the mother sole legal and physical custody and gave the father visitation.

The father used only a handful of visits at first, and then the mother blocked visitation for about a year during the COVID period. She also blocked his phone number, claimed she did not receive emails, and acted in hostile and degrading ways toward him.

Later, the mother reported the father to DSS for inappropriate touching of their daughter, but the report was closed as unsubstantiated. She also accused the father of abuse to the school and changed the children’s school without telling him.

Trial Court Proceedings that Lead to Custody Modification

Due to the mother’s violation of the 2019 Order, the father requested that the court hold her in contempt. In January 2022, she was found in civil contempt by the trial court.

The court ordered counseling, extended the father’s time, and temporarily altered the plan in March 2022. The court said this was one of the worst cases of parental alienation it had ever seen.

In July 2022, the judge appointed a new therapist after scheduling issues with the initial one. The record also detailed growing conflict, including the mother calling in several welfare checks, calling the father a “molester” and “pedophile” in public, and the father obtaining a DV protective order in a different case following one incident.

In October 2022, the trial court entered a new order giving the father primary custody, allowing the children to relocate with him to Virginia, and limiting the mother to every-other-weekend visitation. The trial court also held the mother in criminal contempt.

Appellate Issues and Court of Appeals Analysis

A custody order can only be modified in North Carolina if 1) there has been a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child’s welfare and 2) the change is in the child’s best interest.

The Court of Appeals mainly relied on evidence in this case that the children’s relationship with their father was negatively impacted by the mother’s animosity. Testimony from the therapist and DSS supported examples of this, like the kids’ refusal to call him “Dad” and their need for counseling.

The court also referenced a ruling from North Carolina that acknowledged that attempts to sabotage the other parent’s relationship and ongoing hostility in front of the kids can be considered significant changes, particularly when the interference becomes so widespread that it negatively impacts the parent-child relationship.

What Ultimately Happened

Given the detrimental parental dynamics, the appellate court determined that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding the father primary custody because it was in the best interests of the children.

This meant that the mother’s visitation was restricted to every other weekend, the children were placed mainly with their father, and they were permitted to move to Virginia with him.

The mother was also still found in contempt by the trial court.

Why This Case Matters for Parents

A judge may consider a significant change impacting the child’s welfare and alter custody decisions if one parent consistently prevents contact, makes baseless accusations, or ruins the child’s relationship with the other parent.

Does this sound familiar to you?

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As you are about to read, this decision also explains how courts evaluate business income in alimony cases and how they assess the accustomed standard of living when weighing the reasonable needs of a dependent spouse.

For these reasons, this decision in itself clarifies several common questions and will have future implications on divorce cases across N.C.

Case Background: North Carolina Alimony Appeal and Procedural History

The parties were married for 20 years and separated in 2020. During the marriage, the husband ran a successful packaging business. At the same time, the wife was mostly a stay-at-home parent, later taking a part-time job at a butterfly supply business she operated.

Given those facts, the court found the wife a dependent spouse, while the husband was considered a supporting spouse under North Carolina alimony law. The court also determined marital misconduct, as the husband has admitted to illicit sexual activities.

The initial decision was $6,500 per month, but the final order reduced the alimony amount to $2,513 per month, obliging the husband to pay it for 120 months. What followed was the wife’s appeal, as she found the alimony award insufficient.

Income Imputation in North Carolina Divorce: The Bad Faith Requirement

A central issue on appeal was the trial court’s treatment of the wife’s business income. The court added back $5,060 in labor expenses, finding that the wife could have performed the work herself rather than having an employee she is paying.

However, the Court of Appeals found that income imputation in North Carolina is permitted only if an explicit finding of bad faith is made. These are the cases where one party deliberately depresses their income or shrinks their duty of self-support to affect the final decision amount.

In Sunshine v. Sunshine, the trial court failed to make a specific ad hoc finding but still imputed $5,060, which was improper under the higher instance court. As a result, the decision was remanded, and the trial court will need to determine whether the wife actually acted in bad faith before adjusting the income.

Adjusting unreliable business income for alimony

But the trial court reached an entirely different conclusion in the same case regarding an inventory preorder. The wife had purchased supplies worth $13,399, anticipating a supply chain issue.

In this case, the appellate court held that the adjustment was permissible. The preorder made the 2021 income figure unreliable for alimony calculation, and the court held that correcting that type of distortion was not an improper income imputation.

Accustomed Standard of Living in North Carolina Alimony Cases

Next, the Court of Appeals addressed the trial court’s evaluation of the parties’ accustomed standard of living. This is an important factor under the North Carolina alimony statutes.

The trial court described the couple’s lifestyle as “frugal.” But the evidence showed the opposite. The couple owned a large home, a lake house, multiple vehicles, recreational equipment, and traveled frequently internationally. Given all those facts, the court of appeals found that frugal was not the correct characterisation, and it therefore vacated the findings.

Reasonable Needs and Comparable Housing

N.C. law requires that the alimony should sustain, to the extent possible, the economic standard established during the marriage. In that case, the trial court failed to fully assess the wife’s reasonable needs after divorce, considering the couple’s marital lifestyle.

Therefore, on remand, the trial court must reassess the wife’s current housing and overall expenses and compare them with the marital standard of living.

Legal Significance for North Carolina Family Law

The North Carolina Court of Appeals has vacated and remanded the trial court’s decision for further proceedings. The trial court needs to clarify whether the income was depressed in bad faith and recalculate the alimony amount, taking into full consideration the wife’s reasonable needs based on the parties’ marital lifestyle.

The Sunshine v. Sunshine case is important for family law practitioners and people going through divorce. Therefore, it’s best to work with legal professionals who have direct experience with family law matters in North Carolina, who will give you sound advice and help ensure the court’s decision doesn’t surprise you.

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Seek Out Flexible Work Arrangements

Seeking positions in medical fields that offer remote work or a flexible schedule can give you more freedom and time to spend with your little one. It’s okay to ask your employer to offer more flexible shift patterns to align better with your needs. While it can be frightening to speak up, most employers appreciate transparency with their staff and are more than willing to figure out a solution that works for everyone.

Build a Village

The saying that it takes a village to raise a child is so true. Having people to rely on as a single parent is essential. Leaning on friends and family isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a way to make life more manageable. If you don’t have anyone nearby, an online community can still be a great support system. Joining groups on different social media platforms is a great way to ask for advice and get emotional support when you need it most.

Communicate and Advocate Your Needs

It can be intimidating speaking with your supervisor about your scheduling needs, but there’s no need to feel guilty about the need to manage your childcare responsibilities. Emergencies, illnesses, and unexpected issues come up; it’s a part of life, so having open communication with your employer is important.

Prioritize Your Health

To be the best version of yourself, you need to prioritize your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. As parents, especially single parents, we can feel guilty about putting ourselves first. Working while being there for your children can take its toll, and you can quickly experience burnout if you’re not careful. Self-care is one of the best ways to ensure you can give your children and your career the best version of yourself. It can be as simple as spending 30 minutes taking a bath or going for a walk in nature. Whatever makes you feel fulfilled and helps you decompress will benefit everyone in the long run.

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During Black History Month, we honor the African American lawyers and judges who transformed the bench from a tool of oppression into a lever for equality. Following our look at North Carolina’s local trailblazers, we are broadening our lens to celebrate the national icons whose brilliance and bravery forever changed the course of the United States.

Barriers Black Lawyers Fought Through

Black prospective lawyers were frequently shut out of juries, law schools, courts, and professional networks during segregation. In the 19th century, most women, especially women of color, were outright barred from enrolling in law schools or obtaining licenses, since it was a well known fact that the legal field was reserved essentially for wealthy white men.

Even after gaining their freedom, Black men were not allowed to join many bar associations or schools. The American Bar Association themselves did not admit Black members until the 1910s, forcing them to form their own National Bar Association in 1925.

Additionally, all-white juries were the norm, effectively shutting Black citizens out of jury service.

And throughout all of this, despite the injustices they faced, there were African Americans who fought for a chance to practice law.

The First Black Lawyers and Judges

Macon Bolling Allen became the first licensed Black lawyer in America in 1844, having had to pass the Maine bar exam in a hostile climate but succeeded and later even became the nation’s first Black judge (Justice of the Peace in Massachusetts).

The first Black woman lawyer, Charlotte E. Ray, graduated from Howard University Law in 1872 and was admitted to the bar in Washington, D.C., making her the first African-American woman to formally practice law in the US. Ray opened her own law office, but prejudice in the 1870s meant she struggled to find clients and had to close her practice.

A few decades later, Jane Bolin made history in 1939 as the first Black female judge in the United States. Bolin served on New York’s family court for 40 years, where she fought to end segregation in child services and probation assignments.

The People Behind Landmark Civil Rights Victories

African American civil rights lawyers in the mid-20^th century used the law as a tool against Jim Crow segregation. Charles Hamilton Houston, the NAACP’s first special counsel, masterminded a legal strategy to dismantle “separate but equal” schools, exposing the hollowness of segregation and paving the way for the Supreme Court’s 1954 Brown v. Board of Education ruling that outlawed school segregation.

Houston mentored a young attorney named Thurgood Marshall, who carried this fight forward. Marshall argued the Brown case before the Supreme Court and later became the first Black Supreme Court Justice in 1967.

How Black Legal Leadership Is Shaping Justice Right Now

Today, Black legal leadership continues to advance justice and equality. The legal profession has become more diverse, though it still has far to go. African Americans make up about 13% of the population, but only around 5% are lawyers.

Slowly but surely, that number is changing. Black attorneys are reaching new milestones and driving change. One such milestone comes from 2022, where Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson was sworn in as the first Black woman ever to serve on the US Supreme Court.

Conclusion

African American legal pioneers have shaped US history, from the first Black attorneys to enter courtrooms to the civil rights lawyers who dismantled Jim Crow. Their bravery provided them access to the highest echelons of the judiciary, law schools, and courtrooms.

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Lawyers have always had a front-row seat to American power – which, when you think about it, makes a lot of sense. The same skills that make a great attorney, like debating, negotiating, dealing with difficult situations, and knowing when to push and when to settle, turn out to be pretty useful when you’re running the free world.

Why 55% of Commanders-in-Chief Started at the Bar

It’s no coincidence that 25 of our 45 presidents have been lawyers. When you look at the job description of a US President, it’s essentially the world’s most high-stakes legal practice. Both positions call for a “courtroom presence” that can persuade a cynical audience, an obsession with the fine print, and the capacity to work through mountains of information.

The legal profession prepares its practitioners to operate in the gray areas, where precedent is sparse and results are never assured, and to live comfortably in uncertainty. The Oval Office is a natural fit for that habit. Like practicing law, governing is frequently a risk management exercise. The goal is the same whether a president is drafting an executive order or a lawyer is drafting a complicated settlement: force clarity into a situation that defies it.

This shared DNA is why legal training remains the most popular “pre-req” for the highest office in the land. Here are some of the lawyers who became President.

Abraham Lincoln

“Honest Abe” worked as a self-taught litigator in Illinois for more than 20 years prior to becoming the Great Emancipator, handling cases ranging from murder trials to property disputes. His legal career is frequently cited by historians as the key to his success. His time spent riding the “circuit” and arguing before a variety of juries gave him a natural talent for reading people and distilling difficult moral arguments into language that the average person could comprehend.

John Adams

Long before he became the second president, Adams took on perhaps the most unpopular case in American history.

Ever heard of the Boston Massacre? Yeah, well, John Adams defended the British soldiers. Despite Boston being a hotbed of patriotism, and emotions still being fresh from the attack, Adams somehow convinced a jury to acquit six of the eight soldiers.

He did it not for the fame, it actually cost him his popularity at the time, but because he believed that the right to counsel was sacred. This commitment to the process over the persona set the standard for the American judicial system.

William Howard Taft

Taft holds an impressive record that may never be broken: he is the only person in history to serve as both President of the United States and Chief Justice of the Supreme Court. While being president is an impressive feat, law was his true calling. He even famously said, “I don’t remember that I ever was President.”

Legacy of Advocacy

This President’s Day, as we reflect on the leaders who shaped our nation. The tradition of the “Lawyer-President” reminds us that the best leaders are, at their core, advocates, dedicated to interpreting the rules, defending their clients (or their citizens), and seeking justice in an often unjust world.

That same mindset matters far beyond the Oval Office. For us, advocacy means guiding clients through some of life’s most personal and high-stakes legal challenges. If you need an advocate who understands both the letter of the law and the human story behind it, Woodruff Family Law Group is here to help.

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Tip 1 – Focus on Self-Care

Oftentimes, in relationships, you find that you’ve set your own needs aside to focus solely on your partner. When that relationship ends, you can feel lost and unsure of who you are on your own. This Valentine’s Day, take the time to focus on self-care and fall in love with yourself all over again. Buy yourself a beautiful bouquet of flowers, book a spa treatment, or take a relaxing bubble bath. If you’re feeling brave (and why shouldn’t you?), take yourself out to eat at your favorite restaurant. Take the day to do whatever makes you happy because you deserve it.

Tip 2 – Connect with Friends and Family

Another fun way to spend Valentine’s Day is with your friends and family. Plan a special night out or a cozy night in where you play games, watch movies, and eat tasty food. Your friendships are often stronger and last longer than romantic relationships, so it’s a great time to celebrate the love you have for the people who are always by your side.

Tip 3 – Try a New Activity

Have you been eyeing a fun class, like a paint-and-sip or pottery? What better time than Valentine’s Day to take the plunge and try something new? You could also go to a museum or spend the day exploring your city. If you prefer connecting with nature, you could hike in a local preserve or visit the beach or lake. Stepping out of your comfort zone can feel a little scary, but you’re sure to create great memories, and you’ll be so proud of yourself once you’re done.

Tip 4 – Go Screenfree

Have you ever noticed how your mood shifts after spending too much time on social media? Why not take this Valentine’s Day to log off and give yourself a break from being online? Seeing others’ posts about their holiday outings can heighten feelings of loneliness and create unrealistic expectations. Being single for Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a bad thing. By tuning out the noise, you can focus on yourself and what fills you with joy.

Being newly single can be challenging, but with these tips you can still enjoy Valentine’s Day this year. Woodruff Family Law Group is proud to provide creative family law solutions in a complex world. Our expert team develops creative solutions tailored to your needs. When quality representation matters, turn to North Carolina’s most trusted family law and divorce attorneys—Woodruff Family Law Group.

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Alexander’s Early Life and Education

Alexander was born in Smithfield, North Carolina, in 1919, and grew up in the midst of Jim Crow. She was nevertheless committed to continuing her education, earning a bachelor’s degree from North Carolina A&T before setting much higher goals than most people believed were possible.

She was the first Black woman admitted to Columbia Law School in 1943, and she finished as the school’s first Black woman graduate in 1945.

Her decision to practice in Jim Crow North Carolina, where Black women attorneys were virtually barred from the legal profession, was an act of defiance in and of itself.

Instead of seeking safer or more welcoming opportunities elsewhere, she came back to challenge a system that was hostile to her race and gender, and in 1947 she became the first Black woman to practice law in North Carolina.

Defending Clients Others Would Not

One of her most significant cases came in 1964, when she defended four Black men accused of raping a white woman in State v. Yoes. Even though she lost on appeal, the case revealed the extremely biased jury selection procedures of the time, and her arguments served as a catalyst for changes to North Carolina’s jury system.

Alexander built herself up as a criminal defense lawyer who believed justice was not selective. Law had to apply universally, even to those who stood against everything she represented.

Although Alexander “represented Blacks in civil rights cases,” according to scholar Virginia Summey, some of her clients were also KKK members. Her willingness to do so was motivated by her belief that justice could not endure if it was extended only to those who deserved it.

Leading the Way with More Historic Firsts

Alexander was elected as the first Black woman to serve as a district court judge in North Carolina in 1968, another historic milestone. She was also among the first women in the US to be elected by popular vote.

For more than a decade, Alexander served as a judge in Guilford County, bringing both firm authority and compassion to the bench. She believed that the court system should offer second chances, especially to young people. During her time as a district court judge, she supported rehabilitation programs aimed at keeping first-time youth offenders out of long-term trouble and guiding them toward better paths.

And in 1974, she ran for Chief Justice of the North Carolina Supreme Court, but she was defeated in the Republican primary by a white candidate who wasn’t even a lawyer. A constitutional amendment requiring judicial candidates to be licensed attorneys was ultimately influenced by public outrage over that election.

It would seem that even her setbacks forced the system to evolve.

A Legacy Still on the Records

Elreta Melton Alexander passed away in 1998, but her impact on North Carolina’s legal system lives on. Her life was full of firsts, showing what becomes possible when someone refuses to give up on justice in a world that is set up to deny individuals both voice and power.

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